 | Do you find yourself making excuses, lying or covering up
for your child, spouse, relative or friend? |
| Do you have reason not to trust your child, spouse,
relative or friend? |
| Is it becoming difficult for you to believe his/her
explanations? |
| Do you lie awake worrying about your child, spouse,
relative or friend? |
| Is your child missing school without your knowledge? |
| Is your spouse missing work and are the bills piling up? |
| Are your savings mysteriously disappearing? |
| Are the unanswered questions causing hostility and
undermining your marriage? |
| Are you asking yourself "what's wrong?" and
"is it my fault?" |
| Are your suspicions turning you into a detective and are
you afraid of what you might find? |
| Are normal family disagreements becoming hostile and
violent? |
| Are you cancelling your social functions with vague
excuses? |
| Are you becoming increasingly reluctant to invite friends
to your home? |
| Is concern for your spouse, child or friend causing you
headaches, a knotty stomach and extreme anxiety? |
| Is your spouse/child easily irritated by minute matters? |
| Does you whole life seem a nightmare? |
| Are you unable to discuss the situation with friends or
relatives because of embarrassment? |
| Are your attempts at control frustrating? |
| Do you over compensate and try not to make waves? |
| Do you keep trying to make things better and nothing helps? |
| Are the life styles and friends of the child/spouse
changing? Do you ever think they may be using drugs? |
